
Empowering Communication for Life, Leadership, and Learning.
At Outfluence®, we believe communication is more than words—it's how we show up in the world. Rooted in dignity, contribution, and humanity, our programs equip students, educators, and professionals with the soft skills and social intelligence needed to thrive. Through our signature approach—Silent Communication, Constant Messaging, and Inspired Performance—we help individuals build stronger relationships, lead with empathy, and engage more meaningfully in their communities. Whether you're guiding students through high school or developing leaders in the workplace, Outfluence is your partner in creating a culture of respect, self-awareness, and purpose.
Rebuilding Human Connection in a Digital World
In an age where screens often replace face-to-face connection, the “You Are Here … Now What?” program stands as a vital guide for youth navigating the path to meaningful relationships, personal growth, and future success. While academics prepare students for exams and job skills, YAHNW addresses what’s missing: the ability to communicate with empathy, think critically, build healthy relationships, and become responsible citizens.
Through engaging, others-focused facilitation, YAHNW cultivates the self-awareness and interpersonal skills essential for thriving in school, at work, and in life. At a time when disconnection, conflict, and digital dependency threaten the fabric of our communities, this program brings humanity back to communication—empowering students not only to persist, but to lead, contribute, and complete their journey with purpose.

"In 1963, I sat in a school assembly and watched a pretty girl join a performer and his dog on stage. The girl was confident and joyful, and she interacted with the performer and his canine sidekick as if she were an 'audience plant'. I thought to myself, "I have to find a way to meet this girl."
Truth be told, I didn't possess the self-esteem that would provide me with the courage to introduce myself. Besides, she was in college prep, destined for greatness, and I would be joining the workforce after high school. Our lives were divergent.
Several months later, a mutual friend arranged a meeting for us. Today, 40 years later, that girl and I are proud parents, and grandparents. We came together in 1963 because of the power of Outfluence, and it has the power to transform your life, too."
-Al Betz, Co-Founder of Outfluence
Preparing Students for More Than a Job—Preparing Them for Life
The transition from high school to the workforce can be daunting—and too often, students are academically prepared but socially unready. The Workplace Readiness program by Outfluence® bridges that gap by equipping high school seniors with the soft skills, self-awareness, and communication tools they need to succeed not just in their first job, but in every aspect of adult life.
Grounded in the core Outfluence principles—Silent Communication, Constant Messaging, and Inspired Performance—this five-session program empowers students to listen with purpose, contribute meaningfully to teams, meet expectations with excellence, and recognize their role in both workplace and community. In a world that often overlooks the human side of employment, Workplace Readiness restores dignity, focus, and purpose to the next generation of professionals.
"Before this program, my son was smart—but closed off, unsure, and overwhelmed by the world around him. After just a few sessions, I saw a shift. He started opening up, listening more, and walking with confidence. This wasn’t just about communication—it was about helping him become. Outfluence didn’t just prepare him for school or work—it prepared him for life."
— Parent of a High School Junior
Relationship Coaching Rooted in Communication, Commitment, and Change
Marriage is more than a milestone—it’s a lifelong journey of growth, adaptation, and love. At Outfluence®, we believe that healthy relationships thrive on thoughtful communication and a willingness to evolve together. Drawing from over 50 years of lived experience and the foundational principles of Silent Communication, Constant Messaging, and Inspired Performance, our marriage coaching program offers couples the tools to deepen their connection, navigate challenges, and embrace change with grace.
Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, this program offers ten tender truths—gently guiding couples toward trust, resilience, and a love that lasts. Because with the right support, communication becomes not just a skill, but the heart of a lasting embrace.